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How Women Can Strike a Balance Without Shutting Down After Marriage

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How women can balance life after marriage

Marriage is often seen as a major milestone in a woman’s life, but it is just one chapter in her ongoing journey. After the wedding celebrations end, many women face the challenge of juggling multiple roles — wife, daughter-in-law, professional, caretaker, and possibly mother. This juggling act can lead to feeling overwhelmed, emotionally shut down, … Read more

This Is Why You Should Not Marry Someone Who Is Thinking You Can Change Them

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Don't marry someone you want to change

Marriage is meant to be a union built on love, respect, understanding, and acceptance. However, one of the most harmful expectations in a relationship is believing your partner will change after marriage. This mindset puts unnecessary pressure on your spouse and weakens the foundation of your marriage. Expecting to “fix” or “reshape” someone is a … Read more

The Cold Husband vs The Affectionate Husband: Understanding the Emotional Divide in Marriage

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Cold Husband vs Affectionate Husband

Every marriage has its own emotional climate—some are warm and nurturing, while others feel distant and lonely. A key factor that defines this emotional environment is whether the husband is emotionally cold or openly affectionate. While an affectionate husband fosters connection, intimacy, and emotional safety, a cold husband often creates confusion, emotional neglect, and distance. … Read more

When Shamelessness Becomes Stardom: The Crisis of Modern Fame in Pakistan

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Shamelessness and Modern Fame

In the digital age dominated by TikTok, Instagram, and viral trends, one question echoes louder than ever: Is shamelessness the fastest route to fame in Pakistan today? It may sound harsh, but the rise of overnight sensations—many known more for controversy than creativity—proves this disturbing trend. Across Pakistan and beyond, young women are gaining fame … Read more

The Rise of Show-Off Culture in Pakistan: How Influencers Are Misleading Youth and Destroying Islamic Values

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Influencer culture and youth misguidance

In today’s digital age, where every scroll brings a new video and every click feeds the ego, influencer culture has reached dangerous levels—especially in Pakistan. Platforms like TikTok, Instagram, and YouTube have become breeding grounds for a toxic trend: show-off culture. Influencers such as Rajab Butt, Patlo, and others aren’t just going viral—they’re promoting a … Read more

Tattoos, Trends & Truth: The Case of Rajab But and the Message We’re Sending

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Rajab But tattoo controversy

In an age of hyper-visibility, where influencers shape culture faster than books, schools, or even religious teachings can, every action taken by a public figure is magnified — and multiplied. Pakistani social media figure Rajab But recently had his mother’s name tattooed on his body. What followed was a wave of admiration, praise, and emotional … Read more

Media Content Impact on Young Minds: Hidden Dangers of Modern Entertainment

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Media Content Impact on Young Minds

The media and entertainment industry has always been a powerful force, shaping public opinion, influencing societal norms, and impacting the minds of viewers, especially the young. In countries like Pakistan, where traditional values still hold significant importance, the role of television dramas and movies becomes even more critical. However, there has been a growing concern … Read more